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August 25, 2025 by Alan Zupka

A Clean Space, A Calmer Mind: Why Mindful Cleaning Can Benefit Your Mental Health Year-Round

A Clean Space, A Calmer Mind: Why Mindful Cleaning Can Benefit Your Mental Health Year-Round

Cleaning is often associated with spring—a time of renewal and refreshment. But the truth is, you do not need to wait for any specific season to reset your living space. Whether it is January or July, a deep clean can be a powerful act of self-care that supports both physical and emotional well-being.

From a narrative therapy perspective, cleaning can be a way of reclaiming your space and reauthoring your daily story. Your home holds many narratives—some affirming, some overwhelming. When you intentionally sort through clutter, remove what no longer serves you, and create order, you are symbolically shifting the narrative from chaos to clarity. You begin to say, “I deserve to live in a space that reflects peace, purpose, and possibility.”

Cleaning also aligns beautifully with positive psychology, which emphasizes strengths, personal growth, and the pursuit of meaning. It is not just about chores; it is about nurturing your environment so that it uplifts you. When you take the time to clean with care, you cultivate pride, a sense of accomplishment, and greater satisfaction in your surroundings.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) also highlights the connection between our thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. A disorganized or messy space can fuel negative thoughts and anxious emotions, sometimes without us even realizing it. By tidying up, you interrupt that cycle. You create visible evidence that change is possible, and that small, manageable actions can reduce overwhelm and improve focus.

From a mindfulness lens, cleaning can become a grounding, present-centered practice. Each movement—wiping down a surface, folding laundry, or sweeping the floor—can become an anchor to the here and now. You may notice the textures, scents, and rhythms of the task. With each mindful breath, you create space in your mind as well as in your home.

Here are just a few mental health benefits of intentional cleaning:

Increased Focus: A cluttered space can mirror a cluttered mind. When your environment feels more organized, it becomes easier to concentrate and follow through on tasks, especially if you work from home or juggle many roles.
Reduced Stress
Unfinished chores or visual clutter can silently signal “incomplete tasks,” which the brain reads as stress. By taking care of lingering tasks—even one drawer at a time—you reduce that internal pressure and invite a sense of calm.
Improved Sleep
Cleaning your bedroom, freshening your sheets, and clearing your nightstand can directly support better rest. Sleep is foundational to mental clarity, emotional regulation, and overall health.

If you find yourself feeling overwhelmed, stuck in cycles of procrastination, or emotionally weighed down by your environment, you are not alone. Many people carry stress not only in their bodies, but also in their surroundings. While cleaning can be a helpful and symbolic first step, it is okay to need additional support.

As a therapist, I am here to help you explore the deeper stories that may be impacting your daily life. Together, we can build routines that support your emotional health and uncover the tools that help you feel more grounded, clear, and capable. If you are ready to create meaningful change—both inside and out—I invite you to reach out and schedule a consultation with me. You deserve a life that feels more manageable, more connected, and more yours.

July 28, 2025 by Alan Zupka

The Many Forms of Anxiety and What to Do About It

Understanding and Treating Anxiety: A Personalized Path Toward Relief

Anxiety is one of the most common mental health concerns people face, but it does not present in the same way for everyone. Some individuals experience racing thoughts before a meeting or presentation. Others feel overwhelmed or panicked at the thought of leaving home. Anxiety has many faces, and part of the healing process begins with recognizing how it uniquely manifests in your life.

As a therapist, I guide my clients in exploring the stories they tell themselves about anxiety—what it means, where it began, and how it affects their identity and daily life. From a narrative therapy perspective, we seek to understand not just the symptoms but the meaning you have assigned to your experiences. Together, we begin to separate the problem from your sense of self.

When Does Anxiety Become a Disorder?

It is perfectly normal to feel anxious from time to time. However, when that anxiety becomes persistent, overwhelming, or begins to interfere with daily life, it may point to an anxiety disorder. These conditions can disrupt routines, challenge relationships, and make even basic tasks feel burdensome.

Common anxiety-related diagnoses include:

Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD): A pattern of chronic worry and tension, often about everyday situations.
Social Anxiety Disorder: A fear of being judged, criticized, or embarrassed in social or performance situations.
Panic Disorder: Recurrent and unexpected panic attacks, often accompanied by fear of future attacks.
Phobias: Intense fear of specific objects or situations, such as flying or enclosed spaces.
Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD): These share traits with anxiety and often involve intrusive thoughts or hypervigilance.

In many cases, anxiety overlaps with depression, trauma histories, or occupational burnout. Identifying and addressing these intersections is a crucial part of effective care. From a CBT lens, we work to uncover and shift distorted thought patterns that contribute to ongoing distress. Through mindfulness-based practices, we increase present-moment awareness, reduce reactivity, and cultivate greater emotional regulation.

Anxiety Therapy Can Transform Your Relationship with Fear

Whether your anxiety feels like a constant undercurrent or strikes without warning, there are concrete tools and strategies available to help you regain a sense of calm, clarity, and confidence. Using a combination of evidence-based approaches, I help clients map out practical goals and apply techniques that promote lasting change.

We may work on identifying triggers, restructuring anxious thought patterns, developing grounding techniques, and increasing resilience through self-compassion and strengths-based exercises drawn from positive psychology. In some cases, collaboration with a medical provider regarding medication may also be helpful in easing the intensity of symptoms and supporting deeper therapeutic work.

You do not have to live in fear or remain stuck in the story anxiety tells about you. Change is possible. I invite you to reach out so we can begin building a therapy plan that honors your strengths, values your voice, and supports your healing, one intentional step at a time.

July 25, 2025 by Alan Zupka

Coping With Stress: Tips for Working Professionals in the Modern Age

Finding Relief from Chronic Stress: A Therapeutic Approach for Professionals

In today’s fast-paced and hyper-connected world, stress has become a near-constant presence in the lives of working adults. The steady influx of emails after hours, the relentless nature of deadlines, and the increasing demands of remote or hybrid work can leave even the most capable professionals feeling depleted. Over time, chronic stress can erode not only productivity but also physical health, relationships, and emotional well-being.

If you are beginning to feel the weight of persistent pressure, it may be time to consider professional support. You do not need to wait until burnout takes hold—support is available now to help you reclaim your sense of clarity, purpose, and calm.

A Holistic Approach to Managing Stress

Stress often becomes so woven into the daily routine that it begins to feel normal. However, when it interferes with your ability to sleep, feel joy, connect with others, or stay emotionally grounded, it may be time to explore new ways of responding.

Through a combination of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), narrative therapy, mindfulness, and positive psychology, I help working professionals recognize and transform the internal and external patterns that perpetuate stress cycles. Together, we explore the story you hold about who you must be in your professional and personal life, and examine how these stories may either support or hinder your well-being.

Some of the strategies I may introduce include:

Establishing clear work-life boundaries and learning how to unplug with intention
Using mindfulness practices and breathwork to anchor attention in the present moment
Engaging in physical movement to reset the nervous system and increase vitality
Building in short, restorative breaks throughout the workday
Identifying and reframing unhelpful thought patterns that drive perfectionism or overcommitment
Developing self-compassion and resilience as active practices, not passive traits

These are not quick fixes, but sustainable, life-affirming changes. Even small, consistent shifts can help you move toward a more balanced and empowered way of living.

Therapy That Meets You Where You Are

Whether you are navigating high-stakes leadership roles, adjusting to remote or hybrid work, managing interpersonal stress at work, or simply feeling overwhelmed by the pace of your day-to-day responsibilities, therapy provides a grounded space to pause, reflect, and realign.

In our work together, I create a warm, nonjudgmental space where you can safely unpack the stressors you carry and begin to understand their more profound impact. Using evidence-based tools and a strengths-based approach, I support you in rewriting internal narratives that may be limiting your ability to feel peace, connection, or confidence.

If you are ready to invest in your well-being, I encourage you to schedule a session. Therapy does not have to be a last resort—it can be a proactive act of care and clarity. I am here to help you find relief, develop lasting coping skills, and reconnect with the values that matter most to you.

June 20, 2025 by Alan Zupka

5 Summer Activities That Can Boost Your Mental Health

When Summer Feels Heavy: How to Care for Your Mental Health During the Sunniest Season

The sun is shining, the days are longer, and the world seems to be in celebration, but you may be feeling low. While Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) is commonly associated with the colder, darker months, some individuals experience a noticeable decline in their mood during the spring and summer. If you find yourself feeling off during a season that is often expected to bring joy, you are not alone, and there is nothing wrong with your experience.

In my work as a therapist, I help people explore the stories they tell themselves about what they “should” feel. From a narrative therapy perspective, it is essential to name and externalize these internalized beliefs. Depression or emotional heaviness during the summer does not make you ungrateful or broken; it simply makes you human. Together, we can challenge that inner voice that insists happiness must be tied to the weather or the calendar.

Whether your low mood stems from summer-onset SAD or other stressors, here are five activities you might consider to nurture your mental health this season. These suggestions are grounded in cognitive behavioral strategies, mindfulness practices, and positive psychology principles:

Spend intentional time outdoors. Whether it is a walk through your neighborhood, a swim at the beach, or simply sitting under a tree with a good book, being outside in nature can regulate mood and increase a sense of well-being. Movement, light, and fresh air can all serve as gentle cognitive shifts away from depressive thoughts.
Create a feel-good summer playlist. Music has the power to influence emotions. Curate a collection of songs that uplift you, ground you, or make you smile. Listening mindfully can be a powerful way to reconnect with the present moment.
Plant something new. Whether you have a full garden or just a few pots on a windowsill, growing something, flowers, herbs, or vegetables, can provide a sense of purpose and a reminder of the possibility for growth and renewal.
Engage with your community. Consider attending a local fair, seeing an outdoor movie, or visiting an amusement park. Even brief moments of social interaction and joy can help reframe your emotional experience.
Support your well-being through nourishment. Explore your local farmer’s market, try a new recipe, or prepare a meal with a loved one. Cooking mindfully can be both grounding and rewarding.

Still Feeling Stuck? Let Us Talk

If you have tried some of these approaches and are still struggling, please know that support is available. I invite you to reach out and schedule a session with me. Together, we can delve into the deeper layers of what you’re experiencing and identify tailored strategies to help you move forward. Through a collaborative and compassionate process, we will work to reconnect you with your values, rewrite unhelpful thought patterns, and foster more meaningful daily experiences.

You deserve support that honors your whole story, every season of it.

Remain Curious

A Clean Space, A Calmer Mind: Why Mindful Cleaning Can Benefit Your Mental Health Year-Round

The Many Forms of Anxiety and What to Do About It

When Does Anxiety Become a Disorder?

Anxiety Therapy Can Transform Your Relationship with Fear

Coping With Stress: Tips for Working Professionals in the Modern Age

5 Summer Activities That Can Boost Your Mental Health

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