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July 28, 2025 by Alan Zupka

The Many Forms of Anxiety and What to Do About It

Understanding and Treating Anxiety: A Personalized Path Toward Relief

Anxiety is one of the most common mental health concerns people face, but it does not present in the same way for everyone. Some individuals experience racing thoughts before a meeting or presentation. Others feel overwhelmed or panicked at the thought of leaving home. Anxiety has many faces, and part of the healing process begins with recognizing how it uniquely manifests in your life.

As a therapist, I guide my clients in exploring the stories they tell themselves about anxiety—what it means, where it began, and how it affects their identity and daily life. From a narrative therapy perspective, we seek to understand not just the symptoms but the meaning you have assigned to your experiences. Together, we begin to separate the problem from your sense of self.

When Does Anxiety Become a Disorder?

It is perfectly normal to feel anxious from time to time. However, when that anxiety becomes persistent, overwhelming, or begins to interfere with daily life, it may point to an anxiety disorder. These conditions can disrupt routines, challenge relationships, and make even basic tasks feel burdensome.

Common anxiety-related diagnoses include:

  • Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD): A pattern of chronic worry and tension, often about everyday situations.

  • Social Anxiety Disorder: A fear of being judged, criticized, or embarrassed in social or performance situations.

  • Panic Disorder: Recurrent and unexpected panic attacks, often accompanied by fear of future attacks.

  • Phobias: Intense fear of specific objects or situations, such as flying or enclosed spaces.

  • Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD): These share traits with anxiety and often involve intrusive thoughts or hypervigilance.

In many cases, anxiety overlaps with depression, trauma histories, or occupational burnout. Identifying and addressing these intersections is a crucial part of effective care. From a CBT lens, we work to uncover and shift distorted thought patterns that contribute to ongoing distress. Through mindfulness-based practices, we increase present-moment awareness, reduce reactivity, and cultivate greater emotional regulation.

Anxiety Therapy Can Transform Your Relationship with Fear

Whether your anxiety feels like a constant undercurrent or strikes without warning, there are concrete tools and strategies available to help you regain a sense of calm, clarity, and confidence. Using a combination of evidence-based approaches, I help clients map out practical goals and apply techniques that promote lasting change.

We may work on identifying triggers, restructuring anxious thought patterns, developing grounding techniques, and increasing resilience through self-compassion and strengths-based exercises drawn from positive psychology. In some cases, collaboration with a medical provider regarding medication may also be helpful in easing the intensity of symptoms and supporting deeper therapeutic work.

You do not have to live in fear or remain stuck in the story anxiety tells about you. Change is possible. I invite you to reach out so we can begin building a therapy plan that honors your strengths, values your voice, and supports your healing, one intentional step at a time.

Filed Under: Anxiety, high functioning-anxiety, mental health

July 25, 2025 by Alan Zupka

Coping With Stress: Tips for Working Professionals in the Modern Age

Finding Relief from Chronic Stress: A Therapeutic Approach for Professionals

In today’s fast-paced and hyper-connected world, stress has become a near-constant presence in the lives of working adults. The steady influx of emails after hours, the relentless nature of deadlines, and the increasing demands of remote or hybrid work can leave even the most capable professionals feeling depleted. Over time, chronic stress can erode not only productivity but also physical health, relationships, and emotional well-being.

If you are beginning to feel the weight of persistent pressure, it may be time to consider professional support. You do not need to wait until burnout takes hold—support is available now to help you reclaim your sense of clarity, purpose, and calm.

A Holistic Approach to Managing Stress

Stress often becomes so woven into the daily routine that it begins to feel normal. However, when it interferes with your ability to sleep, feel joy, connect with others, or stay emotionally grounded, it may be time to explore new ways of responding.

Through a combination of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), narrative therapy, mindfulness, and positive psychology, I help working professionals recognize and transform the internal and external patterns that perpetuate stress cycles. Together, we explore the story you hold about who you must be in your professional and personal life, and examine how these stories may either support or hinder your well-being.

Some of the strategies I may introduce include:

  • Establishing clear work-life boundaries and learning how to unplug with intention

  • Using mindfulness practices and breathwork to anchor attention in the present moment

  • Engaging in physical movement to reset the nervous system and increase vitality

  • Building in short, restorative breaks throughout the workday

  • Identifying and reframing unhelpful thought patterns that drive perfectionism or overcommitment

  • Developing self-compassion and resilience as active practices, not passive traits

These are not quick fixes, but sustainable, life-affirming changes. Even small, consistent shifts can help you move toward a more balanced and empowered way of living.

Therapy That Meets You Where You Are

Whether you are navigating high-stakes leadership roles, adjusting to remote or hybrid work, managing interpersonal stress at work, or simply feeling overwhelmed by the pace of your day-to-day responsibilities, therapy provides a grounded space to pause, reflect, and realign.

In our work together, I create a warm, nonjudgmental space where you can safely unpack the stressors you carry and begin to understand their more profound impact. Using evidence-based tools and a strengths-based approach, I support you in rewriting internal narratives that may be limiting your ability to feel peace, connection, or confidence.

If you are ready to invest in your well-being, I encourage you to schedule a session. Therapy does not have to be a last resort—it can be a proactive act of care and clarity. I am here to help you find relief, develop lasting coping skills, and reconnect with the values that matter most to you.

Filed Under: mental health, stress

June 20, 2025 by Alan Zupka

5 Summer Activities That Can Boost Your Mental Health

When Summer Feels Heavy: How to Care for Your Mental Health During the Sunniest Season

The sun is shining, the days are longer, and the world seems to be in celebration, but you may be feeling low. While Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) is commonly associated with the colder, darker months, some individuals experience a noticeable decline in their mood during the spring and summer. If you find yourself feeling off during a season that is often expected to bring joy, you are not alone, and there is nothing wrong with your experience.

In my work as a therapist, I help people explore the stories they tell themselves about what they “should” feel. From a narrative therapy perspective, it is essential to name and externalize these internalized beliefs. Depression or emotional heaviness during the summer does not make you ungrateful or broken; it simply makes you human. Together, we can challenge that inner voice that insists happiness must be tied to the weather or the calendar.

Whether your low mood stems from summer-onset SAD or other stressors, here are five activities you might consider to nurture your mental health this season. These suggestions are grounded in cognitive behavioral strategies, mindfulness practices, and positive psychology principles:

  1. Spend intentional time outdoors. Whether it is a walk through your neighborhood, a swim at the beach, or simply sitting under a tree with a good book, being outside in nature can regulate mood and increase a sense of well-being. Movement, light, and fresh air can all serve as gentle cognitive shifts away from depressive thoughts.

  2. Create a feel-good summer playlist. Music has the power to influence emotions. Curate a collection of songs that uplift you, ground you, or make you smile. Listening mindfully can be a powerful way to reconnect with the present moment.

  3. Plant something new. Whether you have a full garden or just a few pots on a windowsill, growing something, flowers, herbs, or vegetables, can provide a sense of purpose and a reminder of the possibility for growth and renewal.

  4. Engage with your community. Consider attending a local fair, seeing an outdoor movie, or visiting an amusement park. Even brief moments of social interaction and joy can help reframe your emotional experience.

  5. Support your well-being through nourishment. Explore your local farmer’s market, try a new recipe, or prepare a meal with a loved one. Cooking mindfully can be both grounding and rewarding.

Still Feeling Stuck? Let Us Talk

If you have tried some of these approaches and are still struggling, please know that support is available. I invite you to reach out and schedule a session with me. Together, we can delve into the deeper layers of what you’re experiencing and identify tailored strategies to help you move forward. Through a collaborative and compassionate process, we will work to reconnect you with your values, rewrite unhelpful thought patterns, and foster more meaningful daily experiences.

You deserve support that honors your whole story, every season of it.

Filed Under: mental health, summer

June 13, 2025 by Alan Zupka

3 Habits That Could Be Affecting Your Mental Health

Small Habits, Big Impact: Everyday Behaviors That Can Affect Your Mental Health

When people consider what may harm their mental health, they often think of significant life events: the loss of a job, the end of a meaningful relationship, or the death of a loved one. While these experiences certainly carry weight, the smaller, quieter habits often shape our inner worlds in lasting ways. 

These unnoticed patterns can create stories about who we are and how we relate to ourselves and others. As a therapist, I help clients examine these habits through the lens of curiosity and compassion, using tools from narrative therapy, positive psychology, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), and mindfulness.

Below are three common habits that may be impacting your mental health more than you realize:

1. Inadequate Sleep

Sleep is not a luxury but a foundation for emotional and psychological well-being. Poor sleep can distort perception, increase reactivity, and impair memory, concentration, and problem-solving abilities. From a CBT perspective, chronic sleep loss reinforces unhelpful thought patterns and emotional dysregulation, increasing vulnerability to anxiety and depression.

To create a healthier sleep narrative, I encourage clients to maintain a consistent bedtime, keep their bedroom cool and dark, and engage in calming rituals before sleep, such as journaling, deep breathing, or reading. These simple routines can help restore balance and support cognitive resilience.

2. Physical Inactivity

In our fast-paced world, movement is often de-prioritized. However, staying active is one of the most evidence-based ways to improve mental health. Exercise is not just about physical fitness; it is a powerful tool for regulating mood, decreasing rumination, and improving energy. Positive psychology highlights the value of engaging in activities that build vitality and connection to the body.

Even short walks, stretching routines, or mindful movement can interrupt cycles of negative thought and help you reauthor your story with strength, purpose, and agency.

3. Excessive Social Media Use

Social media can be a helpful way to stay informed and connected, but excessive use can foster comparison, distraction, and emotional overload. From a mindfulness standpoint, it can pull us out of the present moment and create false narratives about worthiness and belonging.

To shift this habit, consider turning off notifications, removing certain apps from your phone, or setting a specific time limit for daily use. Practicing intentional use of technology can increase your sense of control and reduce stress and disconnection.

Moving Toward a Healthier Narrative

Small changes can lead to meaningful transformation. By identifying and adjusting the habits that shape your daily life, you create space for a more empowered and fulfilling version of yourself. Through therapy, I help individuals uncover the stories that are limiting their well-being and support them in building new, life-affirming patterns rooted in awareness, self-compassion, and intentional action.

If you are ready to explore how your everyday choices are impacting your mental health, I would be honored to support you. Together, we will clarify what is no longer serving you and cultivate practices that align with your values and goals. Please reach out to schedule your first appointment. I look forward to walking alongside you on your path toward healing and growth.

Filed Under: habits, mental health

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Alan Zupka

Alan Zupka | Counselor | LGBTQ Community | Orlando, FL

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