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July 28, 2025 by Alan Zupka

The Many Forms of Anxiety and What to Do About It

Understanding and Treating Anxiety: A Personalized Path Toward Relief

Anxiety is one of the most common mental health concerns people face, but it does not present in the same way for everyone. Some individuals experience racing thoughts before a meeting or presentation. Others feel overwhelmed or panicked at the thought of leaving home. Anxiety has many faces, and part of the healing process begins with recognizing how it uniquely manifests in your life.

As a therapist, I guide my clients in exploring the stories they tell themselves about anxiety—what it means, where it began, and how it affects their identity and daily life. From a narrative therapy perspective, we seek to understand not just the symptoms but the meaning you have assigned to your experiences. Together, we begin to separate the problem from your sense of self.

When Does Anxiety Become a Disorder?

It is perfectly normal to feel anxious from time to time. However, when that anxiety becomes persistent, overwhelming, or begins to interfere with daily life, it may point to an anxiety disorder. These conditions can disrupt routines, challenge relationships, and make even basic tasks feel burdensome.

Common anxiety-related diagnoses include:

  • Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD): A pattern of chronic worry and tension, often about everyday situations.

  • Social Anxiety Disorder: A fear of being judged, criticized, or embarrassed in social or performance situations.

  • Panic Disorder: Recurrent and unexpected panic attacks, often accompanied by fear of future attacks.

  • Phobias: Intense fear of specific objects or situations, such as flying or enclosed spaces.

  • Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD): These share traits with anxiety and often involve intrusive thoughts or hypervigilance.

In many cases, anxiety overlaps with depression, trauma histories, or occupational burnout. Identifying and addressing these intersections is a crucial part of effective care. From a CBT lens, we work to uncover and shift distorted thought patterns that contribute to ongoing distress. Through mindfulness-based practices, we increase present-moment awareness, reduce reactivity, and cultivate greater emotional regulation.

Anxiety Therapy Can Transform Your Relationship with Fear

Whether your anxiety feels like a constant undercurrent or strikes without warning, there are concrete tools and strategies available to help you regain a sense of calm, clarity, and confidence. Using a combination of evidence-based approaches, I help clients map out practical goals and apply techniques that promote lasting change.

We may work on identifying triggers, restructuring anxious thought patterns, developing grounding techniques, and increasing resilience through self-compassion and strengths-based exercises drawn from positive psychology. In some cases, collaboration with a medical provider regarding medication may also be helpful in easing the intensity of symptoms and supporting deeper therapeutic work.

You do not have to live in fear or remain stuck in the story anxiety tells about you. Change is possible. I invite you to reach out so we can begin building a therapy plan that honors your strengths, values your voice, and supports your healing, one intentional step at a time.

Filed Under: Anxiety, high functioning-anxiety, mental health

July 25, 2025 by Alan Zupka

Coping With Stress: Tips for Working Professionals in the Modern Age

Finding Relief from Chronic Stress: A Therapeutic Approach for Professionals

In today’s fast-paced and hyper-connected world, stress has become a near-constant presence in the lives of working adults. The steady influx of emails after hours, the relentless nature of deadlines, and the increasing demands of remote or hybrid work can leave even the most capable professionals feeling depleted. Over time, chronic stress can erode not only productivity but also physical health, relationships, and emotional well-being.

If you are beginning to feel the weight of persistent pressure, it may be time to consider professional support. You do not need to wait until burnout takes hold—support is available now to help you reclaim your sense of clarity, purpose, and calm.

A Holistic Approach to Managing Stress

Stress often becomes so woven into the daily routine that it begins to feel normal. However, when it interferes with your ability to sleep, feel joy, connect with others, or stay emotionally grounded, it may be time to explore new ways of responding.

Through a combination of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), narrative therapy, mindfulness, and positive psychology, I help working professionals recognize and transform the internal and external patterns that perpetuate stress cycles. Together, we explore the story you hold about who you must be in your professional and personal life, and examine how these stories may either support or hinder your well-being.

Some of the strategies I may introduce include:

  • Establishing clear work-life boundaries and learning how to unplug with intention

  • Using mindfulness practices and breathwork to anchor attention in the present moment

  • Engaging in physical movement to reset the nervous system and increase vitality

  • Building in short, restorative breaks throughout the workday

  • Identifying and reframing unhelpful thought patterns that drive perfectionism or overcommitment

  • Developing self-compassion and resilience as active practices, not passive traits

These are not quick fixes, but sustainable, life-affirming changes. Even small, consistent shifts can help you move toward a more balanced and empowered way of living.

Therapy That Meets You Where You Are

Whether you are navigating high-stakes leadership roles, adjusting to remote or hybrid work, managing interpersonal stress at work, or simply feeling overwhelmed by the pace of your day-to-day responsibilities, therapy provides a grounded space to pause, reflect, and realign.

In our work together, I create a warm, nonjudgmental space where you can safely unpack the stressors you carry and begin to understand their more profound impact. Using evidence-based tools and a strengths-based approach, I support you in rewriting internal narratives that may be limiting your ability to feel peace, connection, or confidence.

If you are ready to invest in your well-being, I encourage you to schedule a session. Therapy does not have to be a last resort—it can be a proactive act of care and clarity. I am here to help you find relief, develop lasting coping skills, and reconnect with the values that matter most to you.

Filed Under: mental health, stress

July 21, 2025 by Alan Zupka

The Importance of Having LGBTQ+ Affirming Therapy Available

LGBTQ+ Affirming Therapy: A Compassionate Path Toward Healing and Wholeness

Mental health support should be a safe, respectful, and affirming space for every person. Yet, for many LGBTQ+ individuals, seeking care has often involved navigating systems marked by misunderstanding, invalidation, or even discrimination. These experiences can create barriers to accessing the help and healing one deserves. As a therapist who is LGBTQ+ affirming, I believe it is not only possible—but essential—to offer care that honors your full story, supports your growth, and centers your well-being.

Why Affirming Therapy Matters

Affirming therapy is not simply about tolerance; it is about creating space for authenticity, exploration, and healing. Through the lens of narrative therapy, we collaboratively examine and re-author the stories that may have been shaped by cultural bias, rejection, or internalized shame. These dominant narratives are not the final word. Together, we make space for your own voice to emerge—one that is rooted in strength, dignity, and personal meaning.

From a CBT perspective, I support clients in identifying and transforming thought patterns that may have been shaped by years of minority stress or societal messaging. Many LGBTQ+ individuals internalize harmful beliefs about themselves—beliefs that deserve to be challenged with compassion and care. Through this process, we work to build more balanced, empowering ways of thinking and being.

Positive psychology helps us focus not only on what is difficult but also on what gives your life vitality, connection, and purpose. Affirming therapy highlights your unique strengths, values, and aspirations. Your identity is not a problem to be solved—it is a source of resilience and wisdom to be honored.

And through mindfulness, I encourage the practice of being present—gently and without judgment. Learning to sit with difficult emotions, to ground yourself in moments of anxiety or dysphoria, and to return to your breath or body with compassion are tools that support deep, sustainable healing.

What You Can Expect

In our work together, you will find:

  • A space where your identity is seen, affirmed, and celebrated

  • Support through gender exploration, coming out, or navigating family relationships

  • Validation for the lived reality of discrimination or marginalization

  • Practical tools to manage anxiety, depression, and trauma in safe, affirming ways

  • Encouragement in developing confidence, self-worth, and emotional clarity

I understand how important it is to have a therapeutic space where you are not asked to justify who you are. When you are free from the burden of explanation, the real work of healing and growth can begin. Therapy is not about fixing who you are; it is about creating space to become more fully yourself.

I Am Here to Support You

If you are seeking a therapist who will walk beside you with honesty, care, and deep respect for your lived experience, I invite you to reach out. Whether you are exploring your identity, healing from past harm, or simply looking for someone who understands, I am here to offer support that is grounded in affirmation and hope.

Healing is possible—and your story matters. Let us begin the next chapter together.

Filed Under: lgbtqia, lgbtqia+, lgbtqia+ parents

July 18, 2025 by Alan Zupka

What Is the 333 Rule for Anxiety?

Using the 333 Rule to Anchor Yourself in Moments of Anxiety

If you regularly experience anxiety, you may have found yourself searching for ways to ease your symptoms. One simple and effective grounding technique that I often introduce to my clients is the “333 rule.” This approach can help interrupt anxious thought loops and bring you back to the present moment.

When anxiety begins to take over, I invite you to pause and try the following steps:

  • Identify three things you can see around you

  • Identify three things you can hear

  • Move three different parts of your body—this might mean wiggling your fingers, rolling your shoulders, or tapping your foot gently

Why the 333 Rule Helps

The 333 rule is rooted in the principles of mindfulness and cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT). It helps shift your focus away from distressing thoughts and into sensory awareness. By noticing what you see, hear, and feel through movement, you are gently reminding yourself that the present moment is a safe place to return to.

From a narrative therapy perspective, anxiety often speaks with a loud and compelling voice, telling stories that heighten fear and limit agency. Techniques like the 333 rule offer a chance to step outside of that story, if only for a moment, and begin to author a new narrative—one where you reclaim power and presence in your life.

This practice does not rely on any external tools, nor does it require a quiet room or a lengthy meditation. It is portable, adaptable, and easy to integrate into your daily life. Over time, practicing the 333 rule—even when you are not actively anxious—can build a foundation of internal stability and self-trust.

Let Us Work Together

If anxiety is something you are working through and you are interested in strategies like the 333 rule, I would be honored to support you. In my practice, I draw on cognitive-behavioral therapy, mindfulness, narrative therapy, and positive psychology to create a tailored and collaborative treatment approach that meets your specific needs.

Together, we can explore how anxiety has been affecting your life and begin to reframe the story you tell yourself about who you are and what you are capable of. Feel free to reach out to learn more about how I work, ask any questions you may have, or schedule an initial session. I look forward to the opportunity to support you on your journey toward greater calm, clarity, and self-compassion.

Filed Under: Anxiety

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Alan Zupka

Alan Zupka | Counselor | LGBTQ Community | Orlando, FL

(407) 986-2888
alan@azupkacounseling.com

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