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October 3, 2025 by Alan Zupka

6 Grounding Techniques to Manage Panic Attacks in the Moment

Finding Calm in the Storm: Grounding Techniques for Panic Attacks

A sudden wave of dread can stop you in your tracks. Your heart pounds, your breathing becomes shallow, and an overwhelming fear takes hold, despite there being no apparent danger around you. It may feel as though you are losing control or experiencing a medical crisis. In those moments, panic attacks can feel all-consuming.

Although panic attacks are distressing, they are not life-threatening. There are tools that can help you return to the present and regain a sense of safety. Grounding techniques gently redirect your attention from racing thoughts to the here and now, helping to ease both physical and emotional intensity.

As a therapist, I integrate the principles of narrative therapy, positive psychology, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), and mindfulness to help my clients better understand and re-author their experiences with anxiety and panic. Part of this process includes learning practical skills for moments of acute distress.

Six Grounding Techniques You Can Use Anywhere

These grounding strategies are simple, accessible, and designed to help you reorient during panic. I encourage you to try each one and observe which techniques resonate most for you.

5-4-3-2-1 Sensory Awareness: Identify 5 things you can see, 4 things you can physically touch, 3 things you can hear, 2 things you can smell, and 1 thing you can taste. This technique anchors your awareness in the present by engaging your senses.
Cold Water Reset
Splash: cold water on your face or hold an ice cube in your hand. The sudden temperature change stimulates the vagus nerve, helping your body shift from a state of panic to one of calm.
Name and Describe Objects: Choose an object nearby and describe it in vivid detail. What is its color, texture, shape, or temperature? This helps activate the logical part of your brain and reduces the power of overwhelming thoughts.
Box Breathing
Breathe: in for a count of 4, hold for 4, exhale for 4, and pause for another 4 before repeating. This structured breath pattern signals safety to your nervous system and slows down physiological responses to panic.
Grounding Object: Carry a smooth stone, coin, or small object that you can hold and manipulate when feeling anxious. The physical sensation can act as a steady reminder that you are safe and grounded.
Gentle Movement: Stretch, pace slowly, or take a short walk. Movement can help release built-up energy, soothe physical tension, and bring you back into connection with your body.

While these tools can be powerful, grounding techniques are not meant to replace deeper therapeutic work. They are part of a larger journey. In therapy, I work with individuals to explore the root of their panic, identify unhelpful thought patterns, and build new, life-affirming narratives. Together, we uncover what your body and mind may be trying to communicate; gently, curiously, and without judgment.

You Deserve Peace

You are not broken, and you are not alone. Panic may be a chapter in your story, but it does not have to define the rest of the narrative. If you are ready to begin healing, I invite you to reach out. I specialize in helping people find relief from anxiety and panic through evidence-based practices and compassionate care.

Relief is possible—and it begins with one brave step.

September 26, 2025 by Alan Zupka

Digital Detox Guide: Protecting Your Mental Health From Social Media Overload

Reclaiming Mental Clarity: The Power of a Digital Detox

In a world filled with constant notifications, endless scrolling, and the pressure to remain connected at all times, social media can become overwhelming. While these platforms offer community, entertainment, and access to information, they also have the potential to contribute to anxiety, diminished self-worth, and emotional fatigue.

From the lens of narrative therapy, I invite you to consider the story you are telling about your relationship with technology. Are you the author of your digital life, or has the narrative been taken over by algorithms and comparison? Together, we can explore ways to rewrite this story with intention, purpose, and clarity.

Although social media can enhance connection, I encourage you to ask whether your digital habits are enhancing your wellbeing or quietly eroding it. A digital detox, an intentional pause from screens, can help you reconnect with your values, improve focus, and return to the present moment.

Signs That It May Be Time to Log Off

The decision to step back often begins with self-awareness. Here are some common signs that suggest it may be time to consider a break:

You experience anxiety, irritability, or sadness after scrolling.
Your sleep is disrupted by late-night screen use.
You feel a compulsion to check your phone frequently.
You compare your life to the curated highlights of others.
You feel emotionally overstimulated or mentally exhausted by the constant flow of content.

From a CBT perspective, recognizing these patterns allows you to identify triggers and make conscious decisions about how you respond, rather than operating on autopilot.

Strategies for a Meaningful Digital Detox

Once you acknowledge the need for a break, the next step involves creating a plan rooted in mindfulness and self-compassion. A detox does not need to be extreme. Small, consistent changes can foster a healthier and more balanced relationship with technology. Consider the following strategies:

Designate screen-free periods during meals, work hours, or before bed.
Turn off push notifications to minimize distractions.
Curate your feed by unfollowing or muting accounts that generate distress or comparison.
Use screen time tracking apps to develop insight into your usage patterns.
Replace scrolling with mindful activities such as reading, walking, journaling, meditating, or engaging in meaningful offline interactions.

These simple yet powerful shifts align with positive psychology’s emphasis on flourishing and the cultivation of intentional, values-based living.

Therapy Can Support Your Digital Boundaries

If you find that stepping away feels difficult, you are not alone. Therapy offers a supportive space to explore the emotional needs and thought patterns that may be driving compulsive screen use. Together, we can strengthen your self-awareness, practice healthier boundaries, and align your daily habits with the life you want to create.

Your Time and Energy Matter

Mindfulness teaches us that the present moment is where life truly happens. If you are ready to be more intentional with your time, a digital detox may be an act of self-respect and restoration.

As a therapist, I help clients reclaim their mental space and realign their values through compassionate, individualized support. If you are curious about how therapy might support your own digital reset, I invite you to reach out. Together, we can begin the process of restoring balance and protecting your peace of mind.

July 28, 2025 by Alan Zupka

The Many Forms of Anxiety and What to Do About It

Understanding and Treating Anxiety: A Personalized Path Toward Relief

Anxiety is one of the most common mental health concerns people face, but it does not present in the same way for everyone. Some individuals experience racing thoughts before a meeting or presentation. Others feel overwhelmed or panicked at the thought of leaving home. Anxiety has many faces, and part of the healing process begins with recognizing how it uniquely manifests in your life.

As a therapist, I guide my clients in exploring the stories they tell themselves about anxiety—what it means, where it began, and how it affects their identity and daily life. From a narrative therapy perspective, we seek to understand not just the symptoms but the meaning you have assigned to your experiences. Together, we begin to separate the problem from your sense of self.

When Does Anxiety Become a Disorder?

It is perfectly normal to feel anxious from time to time. However, when that anxiety becomes persistent, overwhelming, or begins to interfere with daily life, it may point to an anxiety disorder. These conditions can disrupt routines, challenge relationships, and make even basic tasks feel burdensome.

Common anxiety-related diagnoses include:

Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD): A pattern of chronic worry and tension, often about everyday situations.
Social Anxiety Disorder: A fear of being judged, criticized, or embarrassed in social or performance situations.
Panic Disorder: Recurrent and unexpected panic attacks, often accompanied by fear of future attacks.
Phobias: Intense fear of specific objects or situations, such as flying or enclosed spaces.
Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD): These share traits with anxiety and often involve intrusive thoughts or hypervigilance.

In many cases, anxiety overlaps with depression, trauma histories, or occupational burnout. Identifying and addressing these intersections is a crucial part of effective care. From a CBT lens, we work to uncover and shift distorted thought patterns that contribute to ongoing distress. Through mindfulness-based practices, we increase present-moment awareness, reduce reactivity, and cultivate greater emotional regulation.

Anxiety Therapy Can Transform Your Relationship with Fear

Whether your anxiety feels like a constant undercurrent or strikes without warning, there are concrete tools and strategies available to help you regain a sense of calm, clarity, and confidence. Using a combination of evidence-based approaches, I help clients map out practical goals and apply techniques that promote lasting change.

We may work on identifying triggers, restructuring anxious thought patterns, developing grounding techniques, and increasing resilience through self-compassion and strengths-based exercises drawn from positive psychology. In some cases, collaboration with a medical provider regarding medication may also be helpful in easing the intensity of symptoms and supporting deeper therapeutic work.

You do not have to live in fear or remain stuck in the story anxiety tells about you. Change is possible. I invite you to reach out so we can begin building a therapy plan that honors your strengths, values your voice, and supports your healing, one intentional step at a time.

July 18, 2025 by Alan Zupka

What Is the 333 Rule for Anxiety?

Using the 333 Rule to Anchor Yourself in Moments of Anxiety

If you regularly experience anxiety, you may have found yourself searching for ways to ease your symptoms. One simple and effective grounding technique that I often introduce to my clients is the “333 rule.” This approach can help interrupt anxious thought loops and bring you back to the present moment.

When anxiety begins to take over, I invite you to pause and try the following steps:

Identify three things you can see around you
Identify three things you can hear
Move three different parts of your body—this might mean wiggling your fingers, rolling your shoulders, or tapping your foot gently

Why the 333 Rule Helps

The 333 rule is rooted in the principles of mindfulness and cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT). It helps shift your focus away from distressing thoughts and into sensory awareness. By noticing what you see, hear, and feel through movement, you are gently reminding yourself that the present moment is a safe place to return to.

From a narrative therapy perspective, anxiety often speaks with a loud and compelling voice, telling stories that heighten fear and limit agency. Techniques like the 333 rule offer a chance to step outside of that story, if only for a moment, and begin to author a new narrative—one where you reclaim power and presence in your life.

This practice does not rely on any external tools, nor does it require a quiet room or a lengthy meditation. It is portable, adaptable, and easy to integrate into your daily life. Over time, practicing the 333 rule—even when you are not actively anxious—can build a foundation of internal stability and self-trust.

Let Us Work Together

If anxiety is something you are working through and you are interested in strategies like the 333 rule, I would be honored to support you. In my practice, I draw on cognitive-behavioral therapy, mindfulness, narrative therapy, and positive psychology to create a tailored and collaborative treatment approach that meets your specific needs.

Together, we can explore how anxiety has been affecting your life and begin to reframe the story you tell yourself about who you are and what you are capable of. Feel free to reach out to learn more about how I work, ask any questions you may have, or schedule an initial session. I look forward to the opportunity to support you on your journey toward greater calm, clarity, and self-compassion.

Remain Curious